Who Is Kelli?

‘Morning All,

I’m Kelli Murbach, the founder and sole proprietor of Secular Shepherdess.

My journey began in a suburb of cornfields, where I was raised with my younger brother by both of my parents. My brother arrived quite ill, and my parents were faced with raising us without sufficient emotional resources.

Looking back, I spent much of my childhood feeling like I was raising myself. I became a hyper-responsible child dedicated to not making ripples to avoid trouble and further burdening my parents.

This led to an adulthood of isolation and disconnection from myself and others. I’ve spent the last 24 years slowly working my way to being a whole connected human.

Six years ago, I retired from structural engineering to share the power of being seen, acknowledging truths, and honoring choices with folks like you.

Today, I create safe and inclusive spaces, allowing folks to find the internal order they’re missing so that they may be present and alive to the wonders of life. Wielding compassion and pragmatism, I support you on your path toward experiencing connection from a place of sovereign wholeness.

My coaching is flavored by my 21 years of engineering, long-form improv training, a love of storytelling, and a lived understanding of how the lingering effects of childhood trauma impact our lives as adults.

As your coach, I will ground you as you discover where your internal stories knot up and limit your ability to be present. Together, we’ll work at unsnarling those stories so that you can live in life’s flow and meet every moment alive and whole.

When I’m not holding space for folks, I enjoy reading, writing, and pestering my cats, Ollie and Remi.

I look forward to talking with you about Personal Growth Coaching.

Secular Shepherdess holds space for clients from all walks of life. Their doors are open wide for those who don’t fit the mold of “normal.” However you walk in the world in terms of neurological experiences and expression, gender identification, sexual identification, spiritual practice, and ethnicity, Kelli will meet you with humility and the belief that you are the best person to choose what works for you.

Training and Experience

  • International Association of Trauma Recovery Coaching - Parts Work through a Polyvagal Lens Certification - pending expected late Spring 2024

  • International Association of Trauma Recovery Coaching - Advanced Certified Trauma Recovery Coach (CTRC-A) July 2023

  • International Association of Trauma Recovery Coaching - Certified Trauma Recovery Coach (CTRC) September 2022

  • The Somatic School Coaching Training - completed training in December 2021, no certification sought

  • Healing Arts Ministerial Ordainment - Freedom Folk and Soul in 2021

  • Master’s of Social Work - Kennesaw State University in 2021

  • Transformation Facilitator of the Healing Arts and Personal Freedom Coaching - Freedom Folk and Soul in 2021

  • Improv, Acting, and Standup Training - through JaCKPie and/or Relapse Theater in the early 2010s

  • Bachelor of Science in Civil Engineering - Case Western Reserve University in 1997