Woman wearing a brown coat walking alone into a darkend tunnel.

Are you quietly struggling?

You walk through the world alone.

You feel like your life is happening to you.

You are counted on to get things done.

You rarely lean on others.

You know that fun and games are not for you.

A group of folks walking along a forest trail.

I see you.

I see the sadness.
I see the joy gleaned from service.
I see your frustration.
I see your independence.
I see your hopelessness.
I see the fortitude.
I see the exhaustion.

I see you.

An Asian woman and a Black woman working together.

Would you like to feel seen?

Are you looking for a place where your voice is wanted and welcomed?

Do you want to experience more control over how you show up to your life?

“Kelli exudes empathy and awareness, making you feel seen and heard.  I would recommend her to anyone looking for a safe, non-judgmental coach to work with them on their healing journey!” - Toni

Consider Personal Growth Coaching

A place for growing in any light.

Personal Growth Coaching is a peer mentorship container intended to give you the space necessary to show up messy and natural so we can work side-by-side as you craft stronger connections to what you want and those folks you want to have in your life.

Where I Bring…

  • Connection woven with grace, warmth, and flexibility.

  • Integrity rooted in wholeness, discernment, and stewardship.

  • Support born of experience, intuition, and education.

To Foster Your…

  • Ability to walk through the world with sovereignty and a wholeness of expression.

  • Capacity to connect with yourself and others from a place of courage, grace, and joy.

  • Willingness to experience joy, allow dreaming, and open connections.

  • Appreciation for the uniqueness of your stories and songs.

With Support Anchored by…

  • Conviction that your sovereignty and safety are paramount.

  • Trust that you are capable of shifting your life toward something you feel is more whole and sacred.

  • Appreciation for the bravery it takes to work in the flow and find our grounded flexibility.

  • Connection woven with honesty, practicality, and joy.

As a peer professional, I’m not looking to diagnose you. I aim to provide you with the tools and support you need to live a life of connectedness.

I’m starting from the position that you’re whole, and where you’re at is where you’re supposed to be. This approach means believing you’re spectacular, growing, and changing human from the get-go, even if you don’t.

We can address all of the quirks your experiences have brought you including the overwhelm, social anxiety, and executive function challenges that so many of us suffer silently.

From my perspective, you’re like a plant who is smart enough to know that you may need a bit more support for this part of your life.

As your co-journeyer, my trauma recovery and somatic coaching training means I’ll be looking at how trauma informs your life and what your body tells us. You’ll get to decide what is suitable for you.

“During the twelve weeks I was coached by Kelli Murbach, I felt more than heard. I felt held with her care, gentle pauses, directness, and cushion of respect for me and my journey. She graciously walked alongside me as an advocate, while two important relationships in my life transitioned; one through death and one through trauma.” - Amy

A grey and steel tabby cat hiding between a blanket and the side of a sofa looking up at the camera.

I know getting a sense of someone from words on a screen can be hard. So, there are a couple of ways to get to know me.

If you need more information about my approach to life see my Notes Along the Way blog or follow Secular Shepherdess on Instagram.

If you’d like to experience how I show up on Zoom and get a sense of how I work, follow the button below to calendar an Inquiry Call where we can discuss what you’re looking for and how I work.

I look forward to talking with you.

Until then, travel safely. -Kelli

“Kelli is an excellent coach, not only is she analytical and asks great questions, but she is also patient and understanding. With her calming presence, she really helped me uncover the root of my issues. As much as she held me accountable, she was gentle and had a great sense of humor." - Chris

Secular Shepherdess holds space for clients from all walks of life. Their doors are open wide for those who don’t fit the mold of “normal.” However you walk in the world in terms of neurological experiences and expression, gender identification, sexual identification, spiritual practice, and ethnicity, Kelli will meet you with humility and the belief that you are the best person to choose what works for you.